How To Wait Your Turn For The Blessing

Some people are so mentally strong, and their faith is so unwavering, that they are truly content in their current situation while waiting patiently for what they prayed for… This was NOT me… I was NOT some people, lol.

For some of us, sitting back and watching other people manifest their blessings, especially when they are manifesting the exact things that you want or have been praying for, is so hard!!!! And, as we all know, being frustrated and disappointed is not considered to be being patient, having faith, or staying positive - which are all of the attitudes that you need to have in order to manifest what you want. UGGHHH. So, like… How do you focus on the things you want (because isn’t this what we’re being taught that we need to do in order to manifest what we want and not manifest what we don’t want??) and still be patient everyday while you aren’t getting what you want, all the while watching other people get what they want, and STILL remain positive, grateful, faithful, AND happy??????? Does that thought feel familiar to you? Because it was exactly how I used to feel when I was smack dab in the middle of trying to manifest the life that I wanted sooo badly.

Well, let me share with you something that I learned while waiting for my blessings to manifest. - The frustration and anxiety of waiting for the blessing is a result of you losing your faith and starting to second guess if you’re ever going to get what you want. It’s those moments when you start to think that maybe what you asked for just isn’t for you, or that maybe God or the Universe (whatever you believe) is saying “No” to your prayer request. Your impatience or frustration has nothing to do with the people who you see living the life that you want. It’s not hating, nor is it jealousy that you feel. What you feel is a lack of faith. You do not believe with 1000000% certainty that you are going to get what you’ve asked for. So, let’s talk about how to turn that around, and trick your mind and belief system into KNOWING with 100000% confidence that you ARE going to get what you want so that you can stop the anxiety and doubt and live happily while waiting for your turn to get all the blessings. Here’s 3 things to do to wait patiently and be content in your life while doing so.

1. Believe that you deserve what you’ve asked for. Belief is the secret sauce. You must believe deep down in the depths of your soul that what you want and asked/prayed for is already yours. As soon as you ask, it’s yours. As soon as you speak it into existence, it IS in existence. Manifestation is in the power of your thoughts and your tongue. The thing is, you just can’t SEE the thing that you’ve asked for yet because it hasn’t transcended into the physical realm yet… But, it WILL if you continue to believe in it despite having no hard proof that it’s coming. Think of it like this - when you ask/pray for what you want, you are pregnant with that blessing. That blessing is IN you, and your continued belief in it will feed it and make it grow, your belief will nourish it and make it stronger. Like a pregnancy, you can’t SEE the blessing yet, but you KNOW it exists. And the stronger your belief, the more you’re nourishing it and the more it grows… then you’ll start to FEEL it. And eventually, it WILL transcend to this physical plane and be something tangible that you can see and experience. But, if you are riddled with doubt, worry, and constantly second guessing what you’ve asked for, then the same way your thoughts and tongue spoke it into existence will be the same way that your negative thoughts and negative talk will speak it OUT of existence.

2. Behave and talk as if what you’ve asked for has already happened. This will help to reinforce your belief. If you start talking like what you asked for already IS, you are literally incorporating it into your life which speaks volumes to the confidence of your trust in the Universe/God (again, whatever higher power you believe in). Like I said above, belief is THE secret sauce, so this is an easy way to practice “belief” if you weren’t sure how to make yourself believe something that hasn’t happened yet.

3. Manifestation Hack - Start looking at the people who are getting what you want or living the life you wish to have as PROOF that yours is coming. This WILL change your life. PERIOD. This is the true definition of turning your pain into power. This is “If turning your frown upside down” was a person. This is learning how to change your perception, shifting your mindset, and taking control of your thoughts and emotions. This is a personal living testimony for me. I used to get so frustrated when I saw people manifesting and living the life that they wanted, that I wanted, because I did not understand why everyone else was getting their blessing, their opportunity, and I was still getting the same ole shit. Well, I got tired of feeling like a low key hater, so I decided to envision myself with my blessing every time I saw someone else with theirs. At the time, I wanted a committed relationship. I was tired of situationships and dead end bullshit. So, every time I saw a happy couple, or an engagement announcement, or wedding pictures, or couples on dates etc; I would smile and imagine myself experiencing those same things. I did it so much that I started feeling true happiness for other people when they were experiencing love. I had to change my mindset and perception from something negative to something positive. I had to find a way to instill BELIEF in what I asked for as opposed to finding reasons why it may not happen. I had to search for proof that it was coming instead of wallowing in everything that was causing me doubt. Try it, Queens. It changed my life, so I know it can change yours too!

It’s no secret that waiting is one of the hardest things to do. Being patient and understanding while waiting for your blessing to come is tough but it WILL come. Increase your faith, and stop allowing the way things look at the moment to cause you to doubt that your blessing is on the way. All things that you’ve asked for are on the way, you just have to stop halting their progress with all of your second guessing, frustration, and giving up because one things for sure and two things for certain - blessings demand patience because good things come to those who wait.

Love y’all… mean it.

Breezy Phoenix