ABOUT
The Full Story
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Here’s the not so short version:
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I had my son at 19, dropped out of college, got a full time job to support him because, at the time, his Dad was not dependable. Worked my ass off in corporate America because, you know, that’s what you were “supposed” to do (well, in 2002 anyway).
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Tried dating because I always wanted to get married, but dating sucked ass for about 13 years. STRAIGHT.
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Lost my confidence, my identity, and my happiness trying to fit into a life and job that wasn't fulfilling.
Put up with shit that I shouldn't have. Didn't speak up for myself when people crossed my personal boundaries. Didn't understand how past traumas and narcissists damaged my emotional well being, and ultimately allowed my self esteem and self worth to be shot to hell.
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But, in 2015, I found myself and found my voice​ by reading and studying self help books, videos, tutorials and coaching. Those resources assisted me with restoring my self worth and taught me how to use my voice and stand up for myself.
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Oh, and shit really started changing when I learned how all of the negative things happening in my life were a result of me living in fear, doubt, and not taking accountability for what my life had turned into. I learned that I had to own my part in how people treated me and the outcomes and results of my relationships, finances, career path, and more.
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More importantly, I learned that if I wanted my life to improve, I had to participate in my own rescue. I had to do the work (Iyanla voice). I had to face my fears and kill my self doubt. I had to have the hard conversations.
I had to confront people and set boundaries; even if that meant losing some friends and distancing from some family members. I had to learn how to put my well being, happiness, mental health, desires, dreams, and goals FIRST.
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In 2015, I learned how to love ME FIRST... And that was when I had my breakthrough.
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Four months later and I started manifesting the relationships, career moves, salary, weight loss, and happiness that I had been wanting for sooooooo long.
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My son was prospering in school and looking at colleges.
I got engaged, then married within 18 months.
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Then, a huge bump in my career came zooming in with an offer that I couldn't refuse as a Vice President for the entire sales division.
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Started shedding weight that had crept on me during that depressing time.
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I even started traveling 2 to 3 times a year to the most beautiful and serene islands and beaches (yes, I am a TOTAL beach bum!).
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I literally fell in love with my life. And I fell into a deeper love with reading even more self help books and working on MYSELF. I saw that the more time, energy, and effort I put into working on me, the more wonderful experiences and relationships drifted into my life.
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Because I was consuming so much knowledge and putting a lot of what I was learning into practice (and the shit was working), I started documenting what I did to turn my life around. I document step by step what I did and what I learned - and this was the birth of the All Queens Army.
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Three years later, my baby (yes, All Queens Army is my baby cuz I birthed her dope ass with my own mind, heart, hands, voice, and resources) has grown from just a weekly podcast, to a full service coaching platform.
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I went from a woman who had lost herself and allowed her fears and past trauma to stifle her growth, silence her voice, humble her boldness, step all over her boundaries, and steal her happiness; to a truly unfuckwithable and confident bossbabe.
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My goal is to provide tools, resources, knowledge, and encouragement to women who can relate to my story because seeing another woman give limiting beliefs, disappointing outcomes, shitty jobs, abusive relationships, and people who disrespect your personal boundaries a huge FUCK YOU is literally the most rewarding shit I’ve EVER done!
So, welcome to All Queens Army.
You can be comfortable here. This is a safe space.
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Go ahead and download an E-Book, read an article, or take a course. I promise you that you will find more than a few resources that will help with whatever you’re going through.
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If you’re one of the women who do not yet “have it all together”, then you’ll fit right in!
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Remember, not knowing how you feel, where to start, or even feeling overwhelmed about how to climb out of your unhappiness or unfulfillment is normal.
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Your feelings are understood.
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Your pain is comforted.
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And your emotions are protected here.
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