You Can Be Classy, But Still Badass and Unfuckwithable

Some call it “classy with a ‘lil bit of hood’. Others call it ‘Savage… Classy, Bougie, Ratchet’ lol.

It truly amazes me how many women think that they have to come off as sweet or politically correct; just to be perceived as classy and graceful.

The days are long gone where we are defined by society's definitions of a “good” or a “classy” woman.

You do not have to be overly nice (and I mean in the pushover kind of way), or super conservative (and I mean in the ‘prude’ kind of way), or intensely articulate, or constantly walking around gracefully 100% of the time just to be considered a classy Queen.

You can have a feisty attitude, drop some F bombs, twerk with your friends, turn up with you fam, do no harm but take no shit, and dish a little sarcasm AND STILL be a classy Queen.

Knowing your worth, enforcing your personal boundaries, not letting people play with you, calling people out on their shit, not tolerating bad behavior, cutting people off before they waste your time, and directly communicating what you want and setting for nothing less is being unfuckwithable. But society has labeled this as being bitchy, aggressive, rude, unlovable, and difficult.

It’s time to remove those labels.

Those labels are not who we are.

We do not have to be passive, dainty, or dignified all the time.

We are humans, with real feelings and emotions. Don’t let anyone make you think you have to wear a mask of ultra conservatism just to feel valuable and respectable.

We are free to be ourselves, to love ourselves, protect ourselves, and express ourselves out loud.

Be yourself, Queen.

The only way to command what you deserve is to walk this earth with so much confidence that your energy shifts the frequency of the room when you enter.

So, go ahead and shake those tables.

Never let a label play down your power.

Never let the intimidated make you feel like you're intimidating.

You can be soft and strong, delicate and tough, sweet and sour, emotional and aloof, flexible and frigid, romantic and distant, bible thumping and trucker mouth bumping, conservative and risqué, or wear a suit or booty shorts.

...and STILL be a fucking Queen.